Fine and McLelland’s article makes me wonder about three
things in particular: 1) If school’s
were not bound by monetary incentives, would schools allow and teachers
comfortably reach out and teach the many facets of sexual education necessary
and covered in this article; 2) At what grade level do we begin this curriculum – due to the
nature and culture of individual student’s homes, as well as maturity level,
some have a need for this education earlier than others and others should not
be educated too thoroughly, too soon; 3) It seems we should at the same time be
educating parents/guardians of our students, especially those of the socio-economically
compromised groups, such as “Black,
Latino, and Native American youth, those living in poverty, and/or recently immigrated
to the United States.“
Regarding
the first point, I know of some wonderful Health teachers who would have no
problem discussing and being open about any of the topics discussed in the
article and others who I think would quickly gloss over certain subjects. That
alone could make the difference in a good, comprehensive sexual education.
Health is
one of the topics whose coverage in school has been reduced, but not
eliminated. Because some students are
more sexually aware, or exposed to more sexual matter or talk in their lives,
or possibly abuse, they need to discuss this subject matter much earlier, where
other students may not be developmentally ready for as in-depth
discussions. So how do we decide at what grade to teach the various topics?
Schools,
unfortunately, often fill in gaps that parents and guardians have been unable
to talk to their kids about due to work, culture, lack of education, or other
factors. These adults may or may not be
receptive, but schools should offer open forums to discuss these matters and
explain what services are available to them and their students in the community
and how best to speak with their children.
Lastly, to
speak to Anderson’ article on homosexual teens, the school I work in has many
openly gay and lesbian students, and our students are very accepting, even
though I know there are some students who are also homophobic. We have also had a transgender student who
identified as female and began the surgical process of changing to female near
the end of the year. Even so, I agree
with the problems and issues related in the article, because homosexuality is so
‘taboo’ during the adolescent years, and I cannot imagine how difficult it must
be, added on to the other school and life issues facing pre-teens.